NVC Resources on Requests
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What Would Be Possible If I Loved Myself?
(3 Session Course)
Join Kathleen for a gentle, compassionate exploration and embracing of your true self. Reclaim your self-worth, experience greater freedom when expressing your self and actually celebrate who you are in the world. Delve into what self-love is and is not – including how to distinguish self-worth from negative cultural labels such as self-obsession and selfishness.
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Neither Rioting Nor Colluding
Powerful Speaking to Create Social Change
Listen to Roxy Manning explore the barriers to speaking authentically as powerful voices for change, and practice these needed conversations about the ongoing violence in the streets of America.
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Lasting Love – The Magic and Mechanics
(5 Session Course)
Join Linda Mia Mukte (formerly Rysenbry), CNVC Certified Trainer, for this uniquely powerful telecourse recording that blends NVC with Dr. Sue Johnson’s empirically validated work on adult love relationships called EFCT: Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy.
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Tips for the Road Series Tip 1
Ask Before Offering Advice or Suggestions
Do you ever think you have the perfect answer for someone who is struggling? Eric offers a tip on how to approach situations like this.
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Tips for the Road Series Tip 3
Get Empathy before Making Important Decisions
Eric explains how we can often avoid regret by getting empathy before making important decisions.
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Tips for the Road Series Tip 5
Separate Needs from Outcomes and Strategies
Eric Bowers explains how needs and strategies correlate to different brain hemispheres, and how relaxing into our needs opens us to greater possibilities.
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Tips for the Road Series Tip 7
Talk about Conflict When You’re Not in Conflict
Conflict is a normal and natural part of life. To varying degrees, it happens whenever two or more people consistently spend time together. Resolving conflict effectively and peacefully, in a way in which all parties feel respected and valued, does not feel natural for those of us who grew up with punitive, adversarial, or avoidant approaches to conflict. Eric offers some tips for approaching conflict.
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Tips for the Road Series Tip 8
Practice Self-Empathy with Your Whole Body
In our fast-paced, busy lives it is tempting to practice NVC mostly with the left hemisphere of the brain, thinking through the steps quickly without slowing down to connect more deeply with feelings and needs. Don't miss an opportunity to integrate the hemispheres of the brain and the valuable information from the neural networks in the heart and gut.
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Tips for the Road Series Tip 11
Catching Hearts
When we take a leap in life and put our hearts out into the world in new or bigger ways—sharing a song, dance, or poem, writing a book, competing at a sporting event, giving a speech, and so on—there is greater potential for aliveness but also for shame and pain
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Tips for the Road Series Tip 15
Keep Asking for Help
Asking for help is difficult for many of us, but can yield rich rewards.