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Saying Thank You without Judgment

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Media Type:
Trainer Tips
Time Investment:
1 - 2 minutes
Date Added:
1/24/2021
Date Created:
2005

Trainer tip: From the NVC perspective, everything someone says or does is either a “please” or a “thank you". In our culture, saying “thank you” usually involves an appreciation in the form of judgment or evaluation. Remember, whether we judge someone as good or bad, judgments and evaluations can create disconnect or tension. Instead, notice how their actions have enriched life, and what feelings it stimulated.

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